Dad, Remember When…
“The chicken might be too spicy for you, Dad.”
“You think so?”
“Yea, it says Cajun.”
“I’ll just scrape off the sauce.”
I shake my head.
“What do you think Mom’s having?” He carefully places the menu on the table.
“Some disgusting gruel I suppose.”
He chuckles. “Hospital food all looks the same. Grey.”
It’s been years since my Dad and I ate at a restaurant alone.
“Remember we used to go Christmas shopping, Dad? Mom would take Teresa and you’d take me?”
“Gosh haven’t thought about that in years.”
“I’d have my Christmas list and we’d go to Eatons so we could talk to the elevator operator.”
He takes off his glasses. “It was nice having someone tell you what floor to get off.”
I remember her crisp white gloves and the clank of the elevator’s cage door closing.
“Then we’d eat at the Chicken Roost. Their sauce was so good eh, Dad?”
“Too bad they’re gone.”
“Remember those juke boxes on the walls in the booths?”
He pauses. “You kids had to read every song title.”
“That’s because they were so funny.”
Our dinners arrive.
“Chicken’s too spicy,” he complains.
I study my Dad as he scrapes the orange coloured spice off his chicken breast. Don’t ever change, Dad, I think to myself. I feel like time is nipping at our heels. Relentless.
“Here, did you want some of mine?” I’d ordered the salmon.
“No, no…you go ahead.”
“I love you, Dad.”
“I love you too,” he smiles. “Wouldn’t find chicken like this at the Chicken Roost.”
Happy Father’s Day, Dad. You’re the best!





This post has 8 comments
June 15th, 2010
This brought tears to my eyes Kathryn. Your stories of your dad remind me so much of my grandpa. I think about the time passing with him all the time and I cherish moments like this. Thanks for the great story, just in time for fathers day!
June 16th, 2010
Hi Kristy, your Grandpa must be a sweetie if he’s anything like my dad…
And a wonderful Great Grandpa to Kaje! Thanks for sharing your thoughts about your Grandpa.
June 15th, 2010
Enjoy Fathers Day everyone, I will remember all the good times with my dad. He was such a great father!
June 16th, 2010
Hi January, your dad was an inspiration to so many people. I remember sharing dessert with him at Swiss Chalet … he really liked his Swiss Chalet…
Thanks for sharing your comment.
June 16th, 2010
Hey Kathryn
I miss my Dad so very much. Fathers day is always so hard for me. This was nice to read, brought back some funny memories.
I love your Dad too!
Cherish every moment possible with your parents Kathryn.
June 16th, 2010
Hi Maryann, I’m glad you love Early Purly too! Bunny was awesome…couldn’t win an argument with him though…
I miss the trailer. Thanks for sharing Maryann.
June 16th, 2010
Hello Kathryn,
This is a nice poem about your Dad. I have a small excerpt which my friend had sent me a long time ago: Fact of Life: Parents are more than GOD – U know why because GOD gives us life with both HAppy and Sad moments, but parents always try to give us only Happy moments!
Regards,
Adam
June 17th, 2010
Hi Adam, unconditional love from parents is such a wonderful gift! We only want the best for our children.
Have a Happy Father’s Day, Adam!
Kathryn