Writing Love Letters: A Lost Art
Verona, Italy – the city of the most famous lovers in history, Romeo and Juliet. Tourists flock to the tiny romantic courtyard of the House of Juliet and the hopelessly love lost send letters to Juliet looking for answers to sooth their troubled hearts. Feelings of love twinkle on paper like stars in the heavens. Volunteers reply to the letters adding a touch of magic to an already mystical story of two star crossed lovers.
Luciously romantic don’t you think? But what’s happened to the passionate art of writing love letters? Throughout history lovers have bared their souls to one another through the written word – the scandalous letters of Henry the VIII to his forbidden mistress Anne Bolyn or the romantic letters of Elizabeth Barrett Browning to her husband Robert Browning.
There’s something intimate and exciting about reading a handwritten love letter. You can turn it over and feel it in your hands, read it again and again, fold it and tuck it into a book for safekeeping. And then years later when the long forgotten book is opened and the tattered letter flutters to the floor, the overwhelming feelings return as if time has stood still.
Handwriting conveys a certain intimacy. The penmanship, the curves of the letters, crossing of the t’s – they all mean something about the writer. Something significant.
In the cold impersonal world of texting, instant messaging and cell phones, I would welcome the thrill of holding and reading a handwritten love letter. Wouldn’t you?
“You have the greatest soul, the noblest nature, the sweetest, most loving heart I have ever known, and my love, my reverence, my admiration for you, you have increased in one evening as I should have thought only a lifetime of intimate, loving association could have increased them.”
– Woodrow Wilson to Edith Bolling Galt (who soon became First Lady)





This post has 8 comments
July 6th, 2010
Writing letters reminds me of the Victorian era – a romantic time when people weren’t so hurried. Words and sentiments can be expressed in many electronic forms today but there is nothing like writing or receiving a letter. We have become so busy that we quickly type out an email or text message.
There is a warm feeling when you reach for fresh stationery and a good pen. Quietly you think about what you are going to say and pause in between sentences for your next thoughts. The elegant script flows through each sentence instead of the abbreviated formats in messaging ie TTYL.
What a delightful surprise to receive a letter! I make a cup of tea and find a quiet place all to my own and with much anticipation open the letter and feel the paper and see the words and read the sentiments.
I believe today’s communication has missed the mark but the younger generation will never know.
July 7th, 2010
Hi Lori, life is moving waaaay too fast these days. We have so many “electronic” choices to send our communications. But what all of us really crave down deep is simplicity, even though we invest in all of the newest technologies. Thanks for your heartfelt comment.
Kathryn
July 22nd, 2010
ah come on. But you can print your email if you like! Your right doesn’t feel quite the same.
I think it was my generation that did it in. I’ll be 40 in a few weeks. But I have to say it’s not our fault – We got computers and the teachers started demanding type written papers – we couldn’t turn anything in that was hand written!
LOVE your blog name and posts!
July 22nd, 2010
Thanks Sonia! I think you’re right….the changing demands in the classroom have made a difference. My parents have amazing handwriting…I have to print because my writing is so terrible!
July 22nd, 2010
I noticed a classmate was writing in a journal last semester and when I asked (because I’m nosy) it was a journal that was shared between her and her long-distance boyfriend. I thought it was incredibly sweet.
I made a goal to write a few people monthly letters because it in itself seems to be a dying art.
July 22nd, 2010
The journal idea is very romantic! I think if I want to receive any letters, I may have to write some myself. Sounds like a great goal!
August 10th, 2010
When my husband goes on retreats he sends me handwritten letters and drawings that he has made. I love seeing his distinct hand on the envelope.
August 10th, 2010
Hi Margaret, I am soooo jealous! Where do you keep the letters and drawings after you’ve read them? I would have a special box for them. There’s something so intimate about handwriting.