Are You An Eat Pray Love Fan?
I love the book. I love the soundtrack. And I love the movie. Heaping plates of steaming spaghetti and slices of hot gooey pizza devoured in a romantic outdoor Italian café would erase all the pain and self-doubt in the world for me! First stop for writer and journalist, Elizabeth Gilbert.
In the summer hit movie, Eat Pray Love, Elizabeth (brilliantly portrayed by Julia Roberts) packs up her broken heart and baggage, complete with recent messy divorce and aftermath of a complicated rebound relationship, and embarks on an exotic journey to three vastly different countries to find the missing pieces of herself she’s neglected throughout her adult life.
Seated in the theatre, I see women chatting excitedly filing into the rows of seats. It’s a full house. Looking around I can’t help but think, “Wow all these women are here for a reason.” Julia Roberts is wonderful, yes, but I believe their search for meaning goes much deeper than that. Why are they here? Can these women identify with Elizabeth’s downward spiral into an unfulfilled world of unhappiness? Or do they just want to enjoy a real life romantic story?
I read the book and saw the movie because I’ve walked in Liz’s shoes. I’ve survived the sadness and defeat of divorce. I’ve jumped from man to man, heartbreak to heartbreak, slowly chipping away at my self worth. I’ve had my meltdown on the bathroom floor tears flowing, suffocated by the overwhelming feeling of helplessness. And like Elizabeth, I found my way back to love.
Last week I heard Elizabeth say on the TV show, eTalk, after writing for men’s magazines like GQ, she didn’t think people would like her book, Eat Pray Love, or even read it. The sold out theatre filled with women would indicate to me that she’s struck an all too familiar chord somewhere deep inside, somewhere women don’t dare go.
Why are you an Eat Pray Love fan? Share your story with us.







This post has 18 comments
August 25th, 2010
A friend bought this book for me as a Christmas present and it was not till recently when I heard that the movie was coming out that I read it. Wow what a great book, loved it so much. Thanks friend!
Liz Gilbert lost and confused, searching for what she wanted from life, steps out of her comfort zone to change her life embarking on a journey around the world. Glad it worked for her, BUT could I do it?
Big capital NOT … I can get excited about reading a book wondering “is there really life out there” but actually getting my feet wet and diving into such a quest for self-discovery. My biggest quest these days is deciding what to wear each morning before heading for work. Life is so fast paced sometimes I don’t know whether to wind my butt or scratch my watch. With a husband, 2 children, 4 grandchildren, 4 dogs and 1 cat life can be a little hectic. I like living “hectic” sometimes, keeps my mind focused and not wondering to places like Italy, India and Bali.
It would take some special woman to leave the comfort of family, friends, house, career etc… to just pack up and leave on a journey around the world trying to find themselves.
Don’t get me wrong I truly admire Liz Gilbert. Maybe if I was younger and did not have the responsibilities I have today, I might think of whisking away out of my comfort zone and embarking on a journey around the world. I might find my nourishment in a California wine vineyard, power of prayer in a drive through church in Vegas on my way to the casino and finally true love on a beach in Hawaii while being massaged by a young man under a palm tree.
Now that’s a thought!
Maryann
August 25th, 2010
OMG Maryann! You need to give up your day job and write for the Comedy Channel! “A drive through church in Vegas!!!!” You go girl….
August 26th, 2010
Yes, I am…
August 26th, 2010
It’s a great personal journey. I’m sure we’re all glad she wrote the book!
August 26th, 2010
I have yet to see the movie, although I plan to, but I loved the book! Her journey is one that I have always wanted to do, but never had the courage or time or money to do. I think it was very brave of her to be able to re-evaluate her life, stop the pattern that she was living in, and find happiness. I see so often, people living lives that don’t fulfill them and I think Eat, Pray, Love is very inspirational!
August 26th, 2010
It took a lot of inner strength and courage to do what she did. I think it was there inside her all the time…she just needed to find it again. I think Eat Pray Love will inspire women to find their passion again and hold onto it!
August 26th, 2010
I haven’t had a chance to see the movie or read the book, but I hope to do one or the other (I’ll probably go see the movie.) After reading your post, I’m curious.
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August 27th, 2010
You know sometimes movies aren’t anything like the book but I like how they’ve blended the two. Let me know what you think after you’ve seen it. Thanks for stopping by…love the SITS Girls!
August 31st, 2010
I loved the first half of that book; I got a little lost towards the end. I do want to see the movie, though. I love spiritual journeys.
September 1st, 2010
The movie does a good job of capturing her spiritual journey based on the book. I think you’ll like it!
September 1st, 2010
Hi Kathryn:
Reading the book but still in Italy. Hope to do more reading this weekend. Loving the book so far. I have walked that road of a painful divorce and self-discovery and it was and still is the most rewarding life experience. The old saying is “the book is always better than the movie”. I suppose there is just so much more detail you can extract fro the book. But, I have heard some people say that the movie was better than the book. I want to finish the book in the next week or so and then see the movie. Will keep you posted.
September 1st, 2010
Lori, I recommend both the book and the movie. I like imagining the scenes myself when I’m reading…they don’t quite look like the movie but they’re intriguing just the same! And the movie kindof puts the finishing touches on my “imagery.”
September 2nd, 2010
I am reading the book now – can’t wait to see the movie and I can totally relate … I think you hit it right on. In years past, divorce entailed so many different negative things and now … well we can all be survivors together!
September 2nd, 2010
Kim, I think as women we need to support each other. Who better understands us than another woman who has gone through a similar situation? You’ll love the movie and I find myself going back to the book when I think of a scene I’ve really liked from the movie. Thanks for coming by!
September 6th, 2010
Sadly I haven’t read the book or seen the movie yet. But I hope to soon — thanks for the inspiration!
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September 6th, 2010
Hi Charlene, the book is still out there and I’m sure the movie will be around for awile! Thanks for stopping by…SITS BlogFrog is awesome isn’t it?
September 8th, 2010
I downloaded that book to my Nook, i hope to squeeze in some reading time soon.
September 8th, 2010
Hi Olivia, with me it’s getting so bad that soon I’ll have to schedule time to read! Thanks for stopping by.