Do You Know A Real Life Romantic Heroine?
I know someone who walks the talk. One of my faithful SaggyButt followers lives her life embracing the mystery of love and romance. Lori Attridge never misses an opportunity to celebrate romance in her life. She’s the real deal.
Lori understands the sacrifice and endless love needed to raise a son on her own. I think she’d given up finding true love until Donnie came into her life. Even then, I’m not sure she could see the forest for the trees. I’m so glad she did.
With love and joy in her heart, Lori invites her friends to share her love of romantic heroines, books and movies. I remember a couple of years ago she invited us (the invitation is in the picture) for an afternoon of “high tea” at the prestigious Prince of Wales Hotel in historic Niagara-on-the-Lake. Eating petit cream cheese and cucumber sandwiches with no crusts, we felt like royalty if only for an afternoon. Lori looked regal pouring tea from the centuries old china teapot.
“The Bridges of Madison County” is Lori’s favourite book and movie. She swept Donnie off his feet and took him on a romantic escape to Madison County, Iowa for the annual Covered Bridge Festival. After a day of whispering under covered bridges and lingering at the farm house where Francesca and Robert’s love story began, they returned to their cozy hotel room and snuggled up to watch the movie. Sharing their love of romance, Lori and Donnie danced while Robert and Francesca slow danced in the movie.
The adventure wouldn’t be complete without sharing it with her friends. Lori sent out Covered Bridges invitations for a girls’ Bridges night at her place. With the soundtrack playing softly in the background, she read memories of her trip from her journal.
The closest my husband and I get when standing up in our hotel room is bumping into each other on the way to the bathroom. Or my hubby leaning over in the bed and softly whispering in my ear, “pass the remote, honey.”
But that’s going to change! I’ve shared with you a couple of examples of Lori’s treasured romantic celebrations but I know there’s many more. She left a great list of romantic movies in the Comment Section of my post, “My Top 10 Favourite Romance Movies.” So did several other amazing “romantic heroines.” Thank you, Lori for being true to yourself and for believing in my blog.
Do you have a romantic moment you’d like to share? Tell us your story.







This post has 14 comments
August 10th, 2010
Mine is very simple. The moment my husband (then boyfriend) said “I want you to be the mom of my children” was very romantic (it was not during our marriage proposal!)
I love the name of your blog…so hilarious! Thanks for stopping by my blog today!
August 11th, 2010
Gigi your guy is the real deal! And you weren’t even engaged yet!?! Glad you like the name of the blog…wish it wasn’t true!
August 11th, 2010
Hi Kathryn!
My husband is a great romantic! Not ALL the time, but he sure has his moments. He thinks about these things more than I do, lol!
He knows how much I have been under stress lately, so he rented me an apartment in the historic section of Savannah for this next week! All by myself! I finally asked him, “what would you think of coming down for a few days with me?” He told me he had planned to surprise me and show up for the first few days!
He has booked a dinner cruise and a massage as well! I definitely have a keeper!
BTW, I love your blog!
Bernice
August 11th, 2010
Bernice, you better hang on to your guy or I’m sure someone will snap him up…
John Cusack was in a movie shot in Savannah a few years ago. What a beautiful place…I’d love to visit there. Have fun and don’t skip the dinner cruise …
The massage can wait! …
August 11th, 2010
Thank you Kathryn. I am honoured. I can’t believe you still have the invitation! I made a collage for my Mom and framed it with all the memories from that day including the invitation. I will never forget all of us sitting in that elegant private dining room sharing tea.
I love the quote from Emilie Barnes book “If Teacups Could Talk”:
“Come for tea” has been another way of saying, “Come, let’s share a little bit of our lives together”. Quietly and gently, this inviting phrase calls us out of ourselves into special relationships with others.
That is what that day meant to me. It was also the first of many more special cups of tea shared. Since then, I have started the tradition of a Mother’s Day Tea and Christmas Tea for my mother, family and friends. We have travelled to numerous tea houses to share in the experience of “unhurried conversation” as Frank Pierce at The Opera House Tearoom in Lynden, Ontario so eloquently expressed it.
The art of high tea was introduced to me by a romantic heroine, Marisa, who embodies a Victorian lady and embraces traditions from that bygone era. See taught me so much about the femininity of a lady.
You are also a real life romantic heroine as you can appreciate the moments I have shared with you. One of the definitions of romantic is living with passion. And that can mean in the context of being with a lover but also pursuing your desires in life, which you do. I am excited to receive your blog every week and look forward to discuss the relevant topics of the 40+ woman that we face every day.
I never thought of myself as a romantic heroine but after 15 years of being on my own, I finally found my Robert Kincaid. I clung onto the words of a magazine article I had tucked away in my wallet, “One day love will come and sit down beside you”. And that’s exactly what happened. It was well worth the wait and I cherish every moment.
I have a stone plaque with a quote by Cesare Pavese etched on it: “We do not remember days, we remember moments”. I fill my life with those moments and it is full and meaningful.
August 11th, 2010
You are so welcome my friend! Lori, I think we could do a whole blog on tea! I have to admit that Maryann made a wonderful collage of our High Tea adventure and framed it for me. I had to carefully pry the invitation out of the frame without wrecking it. And we know Maryann is a romantic at heart …
I never thought of romance as living with passion. Romance doesn’t always have to be with a lover.
August 12th, 2010
Hi Kathryn, I’m visiting from #31DBBB today…but really on over from Twitter. I saw your Twitter name and couldn’t help but be curious. Great titles for your blog posts and very nice looking blog!
August 12th, 2010
Hi Britty, thanks for stopping by. The name is intriguing….but true…
Thanks for the kind words. I hope you’re enjoying the 31 DBBB as much as I am!
August 13th, 2010
Not really one to share, but excited to have a date night coming up this weekend! Love to put a little romance back into our busy lives of raising three kids.
August 15th, 2010
It’s Sunday night and I hope you had a wonderful date night this past weekend! Making time for romance and raising three kids can be challenging. A date night is a great idea….you go girl!
August 16th, 2010
My husband isn’t really one for grand gestures but he puts a lot of thought into the details. He often surprises me with one of my favorite treats. And just yesterday, I took two kids grocery shopping and left two home with him. When I returned, the house was spotless. All three of them had cleaned, including mopping all of the wood floors (a dreaded chore).
August 17th, 2010
Well Mrs. Mayhem, you’ve got a keeper! What a lovely surprise when you got home. I bet your kids were beaming when they’d shown you what they’d done to help mom. I have a few wood floors that need mopping….
August 26th, 2010
Romance, what the heck is that!
The last romantic thing my husband did was buy me a riding lawnmower because he was getting tired of watching me push the old one.
All kidding aside, I have the most wonderful husband in the world. Years ago my father became sick with lung cancer. During his illness, my mother developed Alzheimer’s. I was all of a sudden looking after my parents in a very big way. I ended up having to move in with them until my dad passed away.
Then my mom became dependent on me for everything as her Alzheimer’s worsened. Visiting every day, making meals, arranging rides, gradually arranging a long term care facility, being a caregiver takes so much out of you. I looked after my mother for 7 years after my father died.
My husband Rick never complained, never looked else ware, made a life for himself and supported me during that time in my life. Our youngest daughter was still at home. He was left with all the parenting responsibilities. And yet he was always there to lean on and understood why I was so tired and frustrated at times. He always greeted me with open arms and a big 2 arm hug that would have such a calming effect on me. He is such a patient understanding man, he stuck by me in my time of need.
I just love him so very much.
That is romance to me.
August 26th, 2010
Rick is a great romantic heroine…lawnmower and all!